It’s true that there are advantages to keeping the patient at home for as long as reasonably possible, but it depends on the Alzheimer's symptoms and stages. Here are a few reasons to keep them at home in the early stages of the disease:
However, long-term care homes don’t have to be seen as a last resort. Today’s Alzheimer’s memory care facilities have improved radically, and many offer an exceptional level of care, focused on maximizing the patient’s quality of life.
Here are four questions that you should ask yourself before making the decision to place your loved one in long-term memory care:
Alzheimer’s disease has three stages—patients at each stage require different levels of care. A person diagnosed with Alzheimer’s usually lives another four to eight years after diagnosis but could live as long as 20 years. Early-stage Alzheimer’s patients can live relatively normal lives, although they may notice memory lapses, have difficulty organizing themselves and may struggle in particular with work or social settings. Patients at this stage can usually manage to stay in their own homes and may still have the legal capacity to make decisions about their future care preferences.
The next stage, moderate Alzheimer’s, can last for several years. Patients during this stage will have obvious symptoms, such as confusion, severe memory lapses, getting lost, and behavioral or personality changes, like delusions, suspicion, moodiness, changes in sleep patterns, and in some cases loss of bladder or bowel control.
Late stage Alzheimer’s symptoms can make a person unable to function and eventually lose control of movement. They need 24-hour care and supervision. They are unable to communicate, even to share that they are in pain, and are more vulnerable to infections, especially pneumonia.
Alzheimer’s is a progressive disease, and patients in the early stages may need only minimal care. Even those with moderate Alzheimer’s can receive enough support with either family help or an at-home care service—if they are not placing themselves at risk, can manage day-to-day activities, and are able to take basic care of themselves. However, the disease will continue to progress to the point where you may need to look for full-time care, at which point you may wish to consider a long-term memory care facility.
There are several factors that affect whether you can realistically offer home care:
The patient’s physician may be the best person to advise how much support they need, and you can also seek advice from the Alzheimer’s Association. The amount of support needed will depend on the stage of Alzheimer’s, but also the patient’s specific Alzheimer’s symptoms and stages. There are useful guidelines of what you can expect as a caregiver at every stage here.
Caring for an Alzheimer’s patient is an exhausting and potentially overwhelming task, and if possible, should not fall on only one person’s shoulders. If there are multiple, committed family members to help, during the day and overnight when needed, then a long-term memory care facility may not be necessary; otherwise, it should be considered.
Paid home help is also a possibility, but the Alzheimer’s Association found that it costs around $20 an hour, which quickly becomes prohibitive if you need 24-hour care. However, if you can combine family support with brief home visits, this may be a good choice for minimal disruption to the patient. Other options include respite care and adult day centers, which can give you and your family a break. Alternatively, if you feel your loved one could use more support but is not ready for a long-term care facility, you could consider retirement housing or assisted living.
Caring for an Alzheimer’s patient can be physically demanding. They may need help getting in and out of the bath or shower and lifting in and out of bed. They may also become aggressive. Carrying out daily chores for another person as well as your own can be exhausting if you aren’t strong. The physical demands of caring for someone with Alzheimer’s should not be underestimated, especially if you are older or in any way infirm. Under those circumstances, a memory care facility may be in your loved one’s best interests as well as yours.
Looking after a loved one with Alzheimer’s puts you at serious risk of caregiver depression. This is unsurprising: caregiving can be immensely rewarding, but it is also demanding, stressful, and unrelenting. It is also time-consuming and may therefore limit your ability to socialize or enjoy leisure time, spend time with other family members, or commit fully to your work. Severe depression may impede your ability to care for your loved one in the way that you would wish to.
There are several factors that you should consider when you evaluate the Alzheimer’s patient’s safety in their own home:
Alzheimer’s memory care facilities provide round-the-clock supervision, as well as full security if your family member tends to wander.
People with Alzheimer’s benefit from a consistent, structured daily routine. They also benefit from a healthy diet, regular physical activity, and mental and social stimulation. Circumstances may make it impossible for you to offer your loved one a daily routine that supports their well-being: for instance, if you work long hours or depend on support from family members who cannot commit to regular hours, the patient’s routine may be frequently disrupted, which is not ideal.
If you feel that while you would prefer to keep your loved one at home, you are not able to give them a good quality of life, it may be a good time to consider a memory care facility. Our long-term care and assisted living programs can offer a customized treatment program, a healthy diet, 24-hour support and supervision, and social activities. Rehab Select offers services near Montgomery, Birmingham, and Alzheimer’s care near Opelika, Al. If you would like further advice on Alzheimer’s memory care or to tour one of our five locations in Alabama, please contact us here.